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Minimalist Peeps, Switch-A-Roos and Writing

It's hard living with a minimalist when one loves to shop. That said, I tried to downsize our mugs, but all the mugs have a story. They all tell about where I've been and what I've done. They are markers for my adult life. I told this to Ann as I stood dumbfounded on what to get rid of.

Her answer: "You think that's bad! You open John's cabinet and he has 40 mugs and he says the same thing; they all have stories."

John and I are both Earth signs. He's actually the same sign as one of my childhood best friends. That said, my childhood best friend loves Japan and I have two coffee mugs made in Japan that I should give her. They are such unusual things and one has a Geisha on it. I told Ann that right now, aforementioned BFF and I  are sort of doing this "downsizing" thing where we are pretty much trading each other items we've accumulated. So we're not really downsizing at all.

When we were kids, we'd do this with everything; clot…
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